I discovered my grumpy husband has a secret savings account with thousands of pounds

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband has earned himself the nickname “Mr Grouch”. It was funny at first but I’m not laughing now.

I am 45, he is 47 and we have been married for 20 years and have two sons.

Over the years he has derided me and put me down but what I’ve found out now is the last straw.

By ­accident I discovered he has a secret savings account with thousands of pounds in it.

He has sat silently watching me stress about money and I now see this marriage for what it is – a sham. How can I have a future with someone who doesn’t respect me?

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DEIDRE SAYS: What a shock to find he had money hidden away.

You urgently need to speak together if you are to have a meaningful future.

He has to be prepared to really hear you and decide he wants to change himself. You will both need to make compromises to move forward.

Start by reading my support pack Looking After Your Relationship together to see how to communicate better.

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