It wasn’t a match for Sairah and William on this week’s Blind Date: ‘He was flustered when I arrived. He looked disappointed’
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SAIRAH, 50
Divorced, with no children.
Relationship History
I divorced three years ago after a 21-year marriage, but was legally separated after 16 years. I’ve only had one proper relationship since my divorce — sadly, both my exes were narcissists so I’m careful who I date now.
Pre-Date Nerves?
I was excited, nervous and curious. I went for a smart-casual look that made me feel sexy.
Sairah, 50, divorced three years ago after a 21-year marriage, but was legally separated after 16 years
First Impressions?
William was engrossed in his phone when I arrived so I had a few seconds to assess him.
He’s attractive with nice eyes but not my type — I tend to prefer slightly taller men.
It took me a minute to get his attention so he was flustered when he looked up, and I got the sense that his initial unfiltered reaction was one of disappointment.
Easy To Talk To?
We got on well and connected on a few levels. I think we established early on that there was no romantic connection but that just meant I could relax.
We talked about toxic relationships in the past and discovered we’ve both been really hurt so are determined to find kinder, more positive partners.
We opened up quite a bit and I felt we understood each other. Despite having different backgrounds, we bonded over things like fitness and nutrition, his DJ-ing business and my BollyX fitness teaching, so it was a fun conversation.
Embarrassing Moments?
The initial meeting, as I had to break the spell cast by his phone to get his attention.
Did Sparks Fly?
Not really, but we had a good time. He talked about his ‘bad boy’ image; that people often assume the worst about him when he is actually kind and loyal. He gave me a kiss on the cheek as we parted.
She is looking for a substantial man who is strong enough for an alpha female like her, yet wants to be protected too
Would you like to meet again?
If he was working in Newcastle I’d come and say hello. We’ve exchanged numbers and have been messaging, just not on a romantic level.
What do you think he thought of you?
I honestly don’t know. We did strike a chord over the fact we don’t want to mess around now. I sent him some warm messages afterwards telling him he has a lot going for him.
Would your family and friends like him?
People who really know me would know he wasn’t for me, but he’s a lovely man.
BLIND DATE VITAL STATISTICS
SAIRAH
Divorced, with no children.
CURRENT ROLE
HR manager, anti-bullying consultant.
WOULD LIKE TO MEET
I need a substantial man who is strong enough for an alpha female like me, yet wants to be protected too.
WILLIAM
Divorced with three children, aged 14, 22 and 29.
CURRENT ROLE
Telecomms engineer.
WOULD LIKETO MEET
I prefer natural beauty — someone approachable, honest and up for a laugh.
WILLIAM, 51
Divorced with three children, aged 14, 22 and 29.
Relationship History
I was divorced three and a half years ago after being married for 20 years. I’ve been on a few dates since but nothing significant.
The feedback I always get is that I’m flirtatious, and look like a player. I can sort of see it when I look in the mirror, but I am a genuine, loving man with a heart of gold. In reality, I’m looking for The One.
Pre-Date Nerves?
A little bit, as I’ve never gone on a blind date before, but I’m ready for anything so was also excited.
William, 51, divorced three and a half years ago after being married for 20 years. He has three children, aged 14, 22 and 29
First Impressions?
She probably wasn’t my type to be honest. When I fancy someone, my excitement levels go up a notch. That first impression is what seals it. Despite her lovely personality, I just didn’t get that feeling.
But I connected with her energy and warmth, so there was an immediate attraction in terms of personality.
Easy To Talk To?
We never stopped talking and even got quite deep about how we’ve overcome the trauma of difficult relationships.
I’m pretty open and it was refreshing to share experiences with someone who has the same approach.
We share a positive outlook on the times ahead of us. On a lighter note, we also both love EastEnders. We’re both left-handed too, and have similar personalities.
Embarrassing Moments?
Not really, I’m glad to say.
Did Sparks Fly?
There was harmless flirting between us, and easy back-and-forth jokes. But I think we sensed early on that it wouldn’t go anywhere. Our differing lifestyles and career paths would keep us apart anyway.
William, 51, is looking for a natural beauty — someone approachable, honest and up for a laugh
Would you like to meet again?
Yes of course, but we both agreed we’d be better as friends more than anything else. We messaged to check the other had got home OK, but have kept up the conversation with the occasional chat about work.
What do you think she thought of you?
I hope she liked my personality and my openness and that she felt very comfortable around me.
Would your family and friends like her?
Yes, they would. She carries herself well and is a lovely person. But I’m still looking for that elusive One.
SAIRAH’S VERDICT: 7/10
LIKED? He is down to earth, kind and genuine.
REGRETS? No.
COFFEE OR CAB? Coffee.
WILLIAM’S VERDICT: 9/10
LIKED? She’s bubbly, warm and has great energy.
REGRETS? No.
COFFEE OR CAB? Coffee.
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