I'm pregnant again just two months after giving birth – I'm scared I'll be pressured into an abortion | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM determined to go ahead with my second pregnancy, even though I gave birth just two months ago.

I’m 29 and my boyfriend is 31. We’ve been together for three years and have a newborn daughter.


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My boyfriend feels responsible for our situation, saying he should have used a condom.

The doctor mentioned a termination as he wasn’t sure I’d be able to cope with a baby so soon after giving birth, but I’m very excited.

Hopefully there will be no complications due to getting pregnant again so quickly.

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But I am worried Mum will pressure me into having a termination because she’ll think I won’t be able to look after two children.

I feel ready but she always doubts me.

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DEIDRE SAYS: It sounds like you are clear on wanting to keep this pregnancy, so don’t give into others.

If you abort, you might feel guilty and resentful for the rest of your life.

Close spacing of your babies should not harm your second child but it can feel daunting to be pregnant again so soon.

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You are the one who is pregnant and you must make the decision that feels right to you, regardless of what your family may say.

Do not be pressured into doing something against your will.

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