IT'S meant to be the most important day of her life.

But one woman has been left fuming after her mum made so many demands about the nuptials that it's "gotten to the point now that its like its almost not my wedding anymore".

In a post on Mumsnet's Am I Being Unreasonable forum, she explained that "there's been a few instances where I've let her have her way even though I wasn't happy".

As an example, she said she wouldn't join her daughter in shopping for a wedding dress if her bridesmaids went too.

"But now its all kicked off because my mum has bought a jumpsuit for the wedding but she can't do it up or down herself," she continued.

"So she told me I'd have to help her and be her toilet assistant all day… ON MY WEDDING DAY!

"I said to her no, I don't want to have to be constantly being asked to accompany you to the toilet and to have to look for you when I go."

The bride even offered to get her mum a "zipper aid" and show her how to use it, but her mother wasn't having any of it.

Most read in Fabulous

"Now she's thrown a fit about it, said she's sending the outfit back because I'm being a bridezilla and selfish and ungrateful etc etc," she added.

"But I'm actually shocked she actually expects me, the bride, to be on hand to her.

"So am I being unreasonable to not want to spend MY wedding day being my mother's toilet assistant?"

She also revealed that her wedding is taking place at the family farm, with the toilet block located outside "across the yard (which will potentially be muddy if it's raining)".

People commenting on the post were quick to slam the mother for her behaviour ahead of her daughter's big day, with one writing: "I don't know why you didn't nip this in the bud at the very start.

"You say she's happy so you're happy. But that's bulls**t because you're not happy.

"You have a choice – stop being a wimp and act like the grown woman you should be at 35 or do everything your mum says."

"Tell your mum to butt out and definitely don't back down on being her bathroom assistant!" another person added.

"What is it about mothers and their daughter's weddings that bring out the crazy?"

A third person commented: "Why on earth are you being so passive and letting her get away with making your wedding all about her?

"Stop being such a doormat and organise your wedding the way you want it."

The original poster then returned to the comments to add: "We want to get married, and have a few drinks and some laughs with friends and family. That's it!

"But I don't want to be running back and forth to the toilet with my mother every time she needs to go."

"She is being a MobZilla (Mother of bride zilla)," another person added.

In other wedding news, this woman wants her bridesmaids to pay for a solo spa break for her instead of going on a hen do.

This woman's first date revealed his criminal past and then asked her to take a pic for their wedding.

And this woman uninvited her parents from her wedding after learning a disturbing truth about their past.

Source: Read Full Article