I’m 33, married and have been sterilised but now I feel like my sex life is over – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: EVEN at 33, it feels like my love life is over.

I have been married for 12 years, with four children. My husband is 35.

I didn’t want more kids, so I decided to be sterilised but now I don’t want sex at all.

My husband does and it bothers me that I’m never in the mood.

We have a good relationship generally but I am so worried about the lack of sex I fear he may cheat or leave me for good.

I know I am letting him down and want to get my mojo back.

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DEIDRE SAYS: In itself, the sterilisation won’t have affected your sex drive.

But maybe for you sex was very much tied up with fertility and having children.

Tell your husband you love him and you are trying to resolve this.

My e-leaflet Reviving A Woman’s Sex Drive explains practical self-help and where to find understanding support to help you get your love life back on track.

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